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Congregation Rocked by Former Associate Pastor's Letter of Confession and Apology

Former associate pastor at West Suburban Church admits to inappropriate relationship with a young girl. Darin Evans also was a member of Elmhurst Youth Commission and a Young Life volunteer.

 

The pastor of a church on the north side of Elmhurst shocked his congregation Sunday by reading a letter of confession from his former associate pastor—a letter that described a sexual relationship with an underage girl.

West Suburban Community Church Senior Pastor Jim Lennon announced to his congregation Sunday, Feb. 24, that 41-year-old Darin Evans admitted to "an inappropriate physical relationship with an adolescent minor girl that continued for a few years."

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Lennon contacted Elmhurst police, who opened an investigation and went to Ohio to interview Evans. The investigation remains open, and Evans has not been charged with a crime, Deputy Police Chief Dominic Panico said Tuesday. He declined further comment.

"We're praying for the (girl) and her family," Lennon said in a phone interview. "We have experienced the close reality of evil and we're just relying on our faith in Jesus Christ to get us through this awful situation. We're just devastated."

After 11 years as associate pastor at WSCC, 825 N. Van Auken, Evans resigned at the end of last year and moved with his wife and three teenage children from his home in Villa Park to Ohio, Lennon said. The girl and her family brought the allegations to Lennon just two weeks ago.

"As soon as the allegations were made, I called him, with another one of our board members here at our church, and confronted him about it," Lennon said. "He did admit to it."

He said he asked Evans repeatedly if there were any other victims, and Evans said no.

"That's all I have to go on," Lennon said, adding Evans had very little to say when confronted.

"Nobody saw this coming," Lennon said. "By every indication, he was trustworthy, reliable, he related well with the kids. The kids loved him," he said. "And now they're in a state of shock. We brought in counselors to work with them, talk with the kids, see if there is any possibility that anybody else could be affected."

This is the message of apology Lennon read to his congregation on Sunday:

"During my time at West Suburban, I betrayed the trust you placed in me by getting involved in a physical relationship with ________. I'm sorry for betraying you and for the pain this causes. Darin Evans"

As associate pastor of West Suburban Church, one of Evans' responsibilities was to oversee the youth ministry, Lennon said. He primarily was involved with middle school and high school-aged children. Other volunteers helped him in that mission.

On occasion, he would travel with children in the congregation. Every year, the church sponsored a winter retreat in Wisconsin.

"Each year he would do that with the kids," Lennon said.

Outside of the church, Evans was a Young Life leader. Young Life is a Christian organization that works with high school kids, but it is not affiliated with a particular church or school. Lennon said he wasn't sure, but he thought the Elmhurst Young Life group had about 60 members. Many of them are York High School students.

Attempts to contact Young Life leaders have been unsuccessful. 

A statement from District 205 public information officer Melea Smith reiterated that Young Life is not affiliated with York High School.

"Young Life is a completely separate organization, and has not met at York High School for several years," she said, adding that York counselors are available to talk to students if needed.

She said the district administration considers this a police matter, "and we don't feel it is appropriate for us to comment at this point."

Lennon is cooperating fully with Elmhurst police, and the church is doing everything it can to help the victim and her family, he said.

"We just hope there aren't any other victims," he said.

Lennon sent a letter to friends of West Suburban Church who may have had contact with Evans or who may know of others who might have information to share with police, he said.

"We just want to make people aware, and if there is any other person out there who needs to step forward, we certainly support them," he said. "We are just filled with sorrow that this happened—that this person trusted him. This hit us very much at our core."

Given the public reading of Evans' letter and Evans' role as a public figure, Patch has identified him by name in this story. Evans has not been charged with a crime but has been interviewed by police and remains a subject of investigation.

Anyone with information about interactions with Darin Evans should contact Detective Paul Carney at (630) 530-3206.


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Related Topics: Elmhurst police, Pastor, Sexual Abuse of a Minor, and West Suburban Church

Vincent Russell

8:01 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

"an inappropriate physical relationship with an adolescent minor girl that continued for a few years." Do you mean rape of a child? This sounds like a major cover-up. How can this go on for a couple of years without anyone knowing about it? Sounds like the church wanted to save face and shipped the pastor out of town. This man and the church needs to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Parents should sue this church for compensation of the damages done. Harboring child rapists is beyond disgusting, not to mention illegal.

CheKeroauc

9:28 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

I'm sure others knew of this crime but rtemained silent.

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Ercie Berwick

3:46 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

You say you're "sure." Is that right?! And, pray tell, how are you "sure?" Do you have a direct pipeline to God? Shame on you!

Joe Peacock

9:28 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Stop sugar coating this Patch, he is a child rapist.

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Ercie Berwick

3:47 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

I fail to see any "sugar coating" here. What kind of "sugar coating" do YOU see? I am very interested to hear all about that "sugar coating."

Mindy Krissinger

10:10 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

I don't believe the Patch is 'sugar coating.' Journalism requires an unbiased coverage, unless it is an opinion column. When this story develops further, and the police investigation offers more detail and charges, we can be sure the Patch and other publications will call the kettle whatever the color the kettle is.

NOREEN QUINN AUKST

10:31 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

There is nothing I read to indicate the church knew about this until the victim came forward. It seems to me that Pastor Lennon reacted appropriately and quickly.Let's be cautious about blaming the church until there is evidence that the church knew about this all along.

GlassHalfFull

11:13 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Shame on those who are jumping to conclusions. There is no need to make what is clearly a bad situation even worse by conjecturing. Reporting is almost if not always biased and incomplete, and I have no doubt that this is a clear example of that, so shame on the reporter, too. Real people are involved here.

Concerned parent

11:29 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

It even states that the Senior paster contacted the police. What kind of cover up is that?

Concerned parent

11:29 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

It also stated the Senior paster reported it to the police. How is that a cover up?

CheKeroauc

1:06 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

I don't know if any church officials knew about this before it was revealed. I doubt if Evans spoke to anyone about it but I wouldn't be surprised if the young girl revealed something about it to a friend or relative.

rosie

1:20 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

As someone closer to the situation than they ever wanted to be I am saddened by the rumors and untruths already flying. He resigned months before these allegations came out there was no "ship out" he was recruited by a job, not asked to leave. If people feel they can make incredibly uneducated comments about a situation to which they are ignorant perhaps reading and comprehending the article accurately would be a good start.

Ercie Berwick

4:29 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

People are always ready, willing, able and DELIGHTED to jump to conclusions. I guess it's human nature, sad to say. I am of course appalled by this news from West Suburban Community Church, but I am even more appalled by the "vultures" hovering up above ready to pounce on whoever they feel like pouncing on just to extract some juicy juice. It is beyond comprehension how people can behave this way; worse than vultures, actually!!!

Ercie Berwick

4:38 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

One other thought to cogitate on; that is, if some of you have the ability to cogitate (do you even know the meaning of the word?). I don't know how well you know your Bible (not very well if you want my never-to-be-humble opinion), but when that woman was taken in the act of adultery and set in the midst of that crowd of holier-than-thou men ready to stone her to death, Jesus stooped down and wrote something in the dirt (nobody knows what it was he wrote); then he stood up straight as you please and said, "Let he among you who is without sin cast the first stone." Wow! What's was a fellow to do with that announcement?! They ALL dropped their stones and walked away, probably with their chins dragging on the ground (that last phrase was mine, not found in Scripture). Then Jesus asked the women where her accusers were, and she was amazed at what happened. Jesus said to her, "Neither do I accuse you; go and do not sin again." I am paraphrasing, but you get the gist (at least I hope you do; if not, all is lost)! Now those of you who have conjectured and made ridiculous comments without any basis whatsoever, grow up! This pastor and his people have quite enough to deal with; they don't need your never-to-be-humble opinions that, in the final analysis, don't amount to a hill of beans.

E-town mom of 4

5:45 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Just as you have the right to speak your mind ....so do we. Lets try this shoe on for size .....imagine it being your daughter. How would you feel ?

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Ercie Berwick

12:15 am on Thursday, February 28, 2013

In response to your question, if it were my daughter, I would FEEL like crawling under my bed, assume the fetal position and subsequently die. That's how I would FEEL. But! The Word of God has given me a way out of ANY trial and tribulation. God doesn't draw the line at certain sins. He doesn't categorize sins. Sin is sin, period, paragraph! The Bible is very clear, "There is NONE righteous, no NOT ONE."

We need to get hold of ourselves here and stop trying to act as though we are Lord of this vast universe. Each one of us is simply a "vapor" (according to the Book of Psalms). We are here today, gone tomorrow, but while we are here, it would behoove each and every one of us to take hold of ourselves, stop being judgmental of ALL parties involved and hearken to the words of Jesus of Nazareth who once said, in his Sermon on the Mount, "Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called children of God." (Matthew 5:9)

john appleton

3:40 pm on Thursday, February 28, 2013

I would humbly ask those in the Elmhurst faith community to pray for all concerned in this matter. First and foremost for the victim, and then for our church and for our former pastor and his family. It is a heartbreaking situation. Sin is like a cancer, it eats up everything in its path. And although there is forgiveness for any sin in Christ that does not mean that there are not consequences that can be quite dire. The police will do their job and despite the terrible nature of what has occured the matter has been handled with integrity and transparency by our church leaders. We are all crushed and hurting, disappointed, but looking to our Lord and savior to sustain us and carry us through. Please pray for all affected.

Ercie Berwick

12:03 pm on Friday, March 1, 2013

Hi, John: My husband and I are praying and pulling for the entire church and for Pastor Jim, who has handled this bleak situation with wisdom and authority, bless his heart. I am sure that HIS family is hurting as well because they, too, have been caught up in this sordid situation, same as everybody else. I must take issue with one thing, however. Even though I am aware about the law here in the state of Illinois concerning the underage factor when it comes to taking advantage of a female, still, a 16-year-old today is far, far more knowledgeable about life than a 16-year-old was when I was that age (in the olden days, shall we say). A 16-year-old today is not a "victim" so far as I'm concerned. She knows precisely what she is doing. That does not excuse the actions of a "man of God," who should know better, although, as Scripture tells us, "There is NONE righteous, NO, NOT ONE." I just want it made clear that I find it very hard today to consider a 16-year-old a "victim."

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Ann Kerbs

8:10 am on Saturday, March 2, 2013

If the girl is younger than the age of consent she is the 'victim' in this. Your post comes across as placing some blame on the underage girl. The youth pastor is 41 years old and in a position of authority over this girl - and you're implying that it is partly her fault!! I strongly suggest you rethink your stance on this. It makes your previous post about the bible story very hypocritical. Put down the stone.

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NElmhurstResident

4:48 pm on Saturday, March 2, 2013

Holy cow, are you kidding me?! "A 16-year-old today is not a "victim" so far as I'm concerned. She knows precisely what she is doing." You have no idea if this young woman was coerced, threatened, abused, or anything of the like. SHAME ON YOU for trying to rationalize ANY person's sexual relationship with a minor.

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Karen Chadra

12:33 pm on Friday, March 1, 2013

I just want to make one thing really clear: At no time has anyone officially confirmed the age of the victim. No information is being shared about the victim whatsoever.

Ercie Berwick

1:07 pm on Saturday, March 2, 2013

First of all, Ann, please re-read my comment and do not attempt to misquote me because when I am misquoted it makes my teeth rattle.

Secondly, Karen, thanks for the info about a lack of official confirmation concerning the age of the young woman. I believe that at least one person on this forum posted that she was 16.

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Ann Kerbs

7:38 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

If, as your post above states, you can't see a 16 year old (or whatever age she was) as the 'victim' in a relationship with a 41 year old youth pastor, then I repeat that you need to rethink your position on this. In my opinion, your comments make YOU part of the stone throwing mob. This type of victim bashing is very sad.

Judy Jones

1:04 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

Let's hope that every person who saw, suspected or may have been harmed by Darin Evans, will find the courage and strength to speak up and contact police, no matter how long ago the abuse happened.

It is extremely rare that a child predator has only one victim. Some have many.
Also keep in mind your silence only hurts, and by speaking up there is a chance for healing, exposing the truth, and therefore protecting others

Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, USA, 636-433-2511. snapjudy@gmail.com,
"SNAP (The Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests) is the world's oldest and largest support group for clergy abuse victims. SNAP was founded in 1988 and has more than 12,000 members. Despite the word priest in our title, we have members who were molested by religious figures of all denominations, including nuns, rabbis, bishops, teachers, Protestant ministers and increasingly, victims who were assaulted in a wide range of institutional settings like orphanages, summer camps, athletic programs, Boy Scouts, etc."

Anon

7:07 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

To those who are still reading this article and the comments stated here I would like to throw my opinion into the ring. The article has not stated what the victim's age is at the current age but since you all keep throwing the age of 16 into the mix here is what I have to say: if the child is 16 years old she is considered a minor in the state of Illinois. In addition, according to the confession of Mr. Evans, the relationship went on for years. Mr. Evans moved away almost a year ago, to Ohio. So, you do the math, statutory rape justifiers, bet she was 13 when it first started. If that is the case, was she asking for it then? I am disgusted that you have justified your opinions based off what you think you know of a sexual predator. This man says in his statement that there were no other victims, but I personally don't believe liars. This man lied to his wife, his children, his congregation, his God, the community, Younglife... By not telling someone that he had a relationship with an underaged child FOR YEARS, he became a liar. The people here who are defending him based off of what you know about him, he lied to you too. This man has a mental illness, and he needs help and should be arrested for his pilfering of innocence. Slut shaming is totally unacceptable.

Ercie Berwick

9:32 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

Ann, today everybody's a "victim." Nobody seems to want to take any responsibility for his/her actions. It's so much easier to throw up one's hands and announce, "Poor me, I'm a victim." Do not try to put words into my post. I am not excusing what this youth pastor did. My emphasis in that post was that no 16-year-old today is a "victim" unless she is bound and gagged and forced into submission. She is a willing participant; if not, she would have reported it a long time ago. Perhaps you think she was mesmerzied or hypnotized? What is it exactly that makes you consider a 16-year-old today a "victim," having allowed a relationship to go on and on and on? Unless a young girl at that age was threatened with some dire consequence, she was not a "victim."

E-town mom of 4

9:40 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

Wow Ercie, I pray that if you have children and a spouse that your spouse has a different outlook than you.

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Ercie Berwick

10:04 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

E-town mom, you are reading into my posts what is not there. Sorry about that.

NElmhurstResident

9:50 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

I'm sorry, Ercie, but you continue to try and justify the RAPE of a minor. Why?

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Ercie Berwick

10:05 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

NElmhurstResident, you are dead wrong! Never once did I even remotely attempt to justify the rape of a minor! You owe me an apology!

Ercie Berwick

10:11 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013

NElmhurstResident, allow me to define the word "rape." "The unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse; any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person." The key phrases here are "through physical force" and "that is forced upon a person." That is the definition of "rape." When at any time did I try to justify rape?

bob

3:34 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Both parties are to blame. And its fishy that she told after he moved away. When she could no longer be with him and was upset that she couldn't. And if it ended in 2011, it was well over the legal age of consent. She shouldn't fuss over one year when she keep with it after numerous years of being legal.

E-town mom of 4

3:55 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Wow Bob. Apparently you have no daughters.

Ercie Berwick

10:04 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

I agree with you Bob. At some point during this relationship, this female became of legal age, and she remained part and parcel of this illicit, adulterous relationship. She was no longer a victim; she was a willing participant.

E-town mom of 4

10:15 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Of course you would Ercie. Did it ever occur to you that maybe she was being controlled, manipulated, threatened? No there YOU go Ercie jumping to conclusions and assuming she was no longer a"victim" without knowing All the facts. The same thing you chastised others for doing. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black.

Ercie Berwick

10:41 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

And did it ever occur to you that HE was the one being controlled, manipulated, and threatened? We don't know, do we. All you have done in your posts is bemoan the fate of this poor little "victim." You seem to forget that little girls grow up and become big girls, and when they do they have to assume at least some of the responsibility of an illicit "adventure." Kapeesh?

E-town mom of 4

11:22 pm on Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Hey Ercie. I kapeesh nothing coming from your one sided, ignorant, pompous, vain mouth. Fact she was a minor, period, by law when this started. He was twice her age. Are you kidding me. Quit making excuses for this sick human being. He's not being persecuted for committing adultery. It is for sex with a minor. Why are we even discussing what happened when she came of age??? That's not the crime here. Or do you refuse to see that and prefer to stand on your soap box spewing scripture and your point of view. The law is the law. He broke it he must pay. A total of 13 counts by the way.

Ercie Berwick

12:10 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

Forgive me for discussing what happened (or rather, what continued to happen when she came of age). I know you don't care very much for cold, hard facts. I know full well what this man is being charged with. I wasn't born yesterday. I know what the crime is. I just prefer to analyze the ENTIRE situation from A to Z. When did I "spew Scripture?" I don't know what you're talking about. Do YOU know what you're talking about?

Ercie Berwick

12:13 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

One more thing E-town mom: Why do you have such a difficult time with the point of view of other posters on this forum? Why are you so defensive? Why are you unable to stand up under the pressure of comments and opinions that differ from yours? If you can't take the heat, I think it would behoove you to stay out of the kitchen.

E-town mom of 4

12:20 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

Ercie u should watch the hazardous items in the kitchen. Because it is u who seems to be the one casting judgement on everyones point of views whwen they don't agree with yours. Furthermore, I have nothing to be defensive of. I am stating fact as well, or do YOU not know what you are talking about. If you read all of your previous posts, you will be reminded of all you spewing. So Ercie...I see it is you who doesn't know what you are talking about.

E-town mom of 4

12:25 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

Ercie, another thing. I don't have a problem with other posts! Just because I have an opinion and I disagree with a post doesn't make it a problem so quit trying to stir the pot... Be careful you might just fall off that soap box Wink Wink. Lol

Ercie Berwick

1:45 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

Oh, I won't fall off! I have excellent balance! LOL!

Ercie Berwick

1:47 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

I meant what I said, and I said what I meant. I am correct one-hundred percent!

NElmhurstResident

8:15 am on Thursday, March 21, 2013

Ercie - It's people like you and Bob, with the decades old view of "she was a willing participant" in her own RAPE, that make victims of sexual assault afraid to come forward. Shame on you for trying to rationalize this predator's actions (and that's what he is...A PREDATOR) until the end. It's sick.

Ercie Berwick

2:53 pm on Thursday, March 21, 2013

NElmhurstResident, please cease and desist from MISquoting me. It makes my teeth rattle. You have made a serious and unfounded accusation against me, and I am not going to allow it to go unanswered. I NEVER once said that the person in question "was a willing participant in her own rape!" Nor did I even THINK of such a thing. If you will take the time to re-read what I DID say (and pay special attention to the TIME FRAME I posted about), you will see what I actually DID say. Hope you comprehend what I said if you will take the time to read it again, and this time much more thoughtfully. Thank you.

Wade Gustafson

4:45 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

I'm assuming it carried on for so many years because the rape victim developed Stockholm Syndrome. Beasts like Mr. Evans often have more than one victim and I hope that they step forward if they exist. I also hope that brain transplants will someday become a reailty so the super-naive like Ercie who defend rapists can have access to a healthy brain

Wade Gustafson

4:47 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

"And did it ever occur to you that HE was the one being controlled, manipulated, and threatened?" - Ercie....yes this woman just made the suggestion that a girl who started getting raped by this pastor at 13 was the one manipulating, controlling, and threatening....

NElmhurstResident

4:59 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

You DID say that "she was a willing participant"... scroll up the page! And I certainly did not take that statement out of context. Maybe YOU should re-read what you wrote and stop claiming that others keep misunderstanding you.

Ercie Berwick

7:03 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

Wade, in response to your comments:

First of all, I have never in my life defended rapists! Secondly, you refer to him as a "beast." According to the Word of God, "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God." So that also makes YOU and ME "beasts." One doesn't have to rape to be a "beast," if that is the word you wish to use.

Secondly, according to the reports I have read, this female was 16 years of age when it all began (not 13, as you erroneously stated). Still under age, but do the math, Wade. It's really very simple. If she was 16 and the year was 2004, and the relationship continued until 2011, that would put her at approximately 23 years of age I would think. THEREFORE, for a time span of approximately five years, this "little girl" was of age and knew all about the birds and the bees.

Perhaps there IS a necessity for a "brain transplant" here but, contrary to your suggestion, it is not I who needs it!

Ercie Berwick

7:05 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

NElmhurst Resident:

I am sorry but your level of comprehension is lower than snake's belly. Do the math, and you will no doubt come to the correct mathematical conclusion (I'll not hold my breath).

Wade Gustafson

11:45 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

Ercie I would have to believe in god in order for that to be true....? And I don't so shame on you for putting beliefs in my head! I worship the church of the flying spaghetti monster

Wade Gustafson

11:48 pm on Friday, March 22, 2013

If you're going to cite the bible in your defense I'm going to cite harry potter.

Ercie Berwick

6:25 am on Saturday, March 23, 2013

I'll cite the Bible all I want; there is no rule here that I can't. And as for your "flying spaghetti monster" and/or "Harry Potter," you're free to post any kind of nonsense that you wish.

Ercie Berwick

8:00 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

You "dare" me to what? Okay, here goes. I do not care to correspond any further with an individual who cannot spell a simple word like "rebuttal." How's THAT for a rebuttal, Babycake?

Ercie Berwick

8:35 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

It has become exceedingly clear to me that, contrary to the concern for underage females that you have attempted to portray here and have done so very ineffectively, your TRUE nature and your REAL feeling toward the female sex have become abundantly clear. Only a man who loathes the female sex would use the word "bitch." In other words, sir, you are what is commonly referred to as a "misogynist." If you don't know the meaning of the word, go look it up in Mr. Webster's book. In closing, I would like to bring to your attention that you need to take a crash course, not only in spelling, but in sentence construction and proper English usage.

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Karen Chadra

10:44 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

Wade, please. You know better. Comments deleted for violating our terms of use.

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Karen Chadra

10:48 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

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